tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post7621064005790601208..comments2023-11-05T04:04:33.657-06:00Comments on The Source..: The Good WifeTayneMenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13992618450733549102noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-61546052772005906312011-02-17T05:25:16.902-06:002011-02-17T05:25:16.902-06:00lol! this is a very interesting topic. n yes i thi...lol! this is a very interesting topic. n yes i think men are confused..you might say that i am a typical "good girl" but the idea of the good "wife" is just another kettle of fish. I don't want to be the good "wife" she sounds prudish and boring and the role is tasking and then you end up being cheated on. WTH?!<br /><br /> Its this whole idea of fitting into predefined roles. I don't know if it really makes a difference but I think being a good(all rounder) woman for a good(all rounder) man is much more ideal.Dammiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15496774853057274728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-8522521748999909442011-02-14T13:27:09.762-06:002011-02-14T13:27:09.762-06:00I always say, pick your partners with care...if yo...I always say, pick your partners with care...if you pick a guy who likes being with you...then he won't mind whether or not you are a freak in the bedroom. In fact, if you both learn together....well then the sky is the limit. As per naija men...dem get as dem be. They have a whole different criteria for their wants.LucidLilithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12767954145947887782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-79611309590414817152011-02-11T23:10:06.544-06:002011-02-11T23:10:06.544-06:00What better way is there to try all the stuff (exc...What better way is there to try all the stuff (except perverted acts), grow in intimacy and love, know what man and woman really like, if not in marriage?<br /><br />"Miss bad girl" may want to be a wife someday...what then does she do when she becomes a wife?Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-59257324872549782352011-02-11T11:06:01.531-06:002011-02-11T11:06:01.531-06:00Well here' how I see it. I would like to know ...Well here' how I see it. I would like to know the age/generational level of those whom you're asking because I think it is generational. I would be pleasantly surprised to find any Nigerian girl in my generation that is a virgin (technical or otherwise), the fact is that we are a more sexually liberated generation than the one before. We openly discuss sexual needs, desires etc. Now the question is how much sexual desire can men handle. Each man's libido obviously differs and so when a man encounters a lady whose sexual proclivities are different from his, she is called a freak or a nymph. <br /> <br />Most guys I know would be surprised to be dating someone who hasn't had sex before. That being said, we are not looking for the village bicycle. But the idea that a girl having high sexual desires and libido disqualifies her sounds archaic to me. I think "Chuck Bass" said it best. It's a question of what a lady brings to the table, men know if all a girl has to offer is sex and act accordingly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-79782292721253819972011-02-11T10:09:16.935-06:002011-02-11T10:09:16.935-06:00Apparently, your sources haven't rogered Calab...Apparently, your sources haven't rogered Calabar women lately.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-89016007001408074402011-02-10T23:30:29.973-06:002011-02-10T23:30:29.973-06:00"unfortunately for us women, we never know th..."unfortunately for us women, we never know the rules or how to play, we just find out we either won or lost"<br />----------------<br />this is the kind of thinking that makes me laugh...<br />its like applied physics...some people get it...some people dont. <br />you dont walk into class talking about "i didn't know what to study"<br />men are NOT complicated...<br />the problem is that women want to know the man they're going to marry (or at least be interested in marrying) AHEAD OF TIME<br />why?<br />so that they can prepare for him<br />and<br />so that they have control<br /><br />if this issue was in the hands of women, all these frivolous complaints would stop.<br />but it isn't soooo....carry on.chuck bassnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-14684638247503699592011-02-10T22:31:27.648-06:002011-02-10T22:31:27.648-06:00I like Chuck Bass
In other news i think that a ma...I like Chuck Bass<br /><br />In other news i think that a man wants you to be a freak even as good as you are, he just doesn't want you to be on a "hoe" level, esp when he knows he wasn't the only one and doesn't want to think you have done it with others. O well, do you. My man better be able to sexually satisfy me on a freaky level. That is allNee Fe Mihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00770543533340729142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-67382617165219595482011-02-10T22:13:26.703-06:002011-02-10T22:13:26.703-06:00Interesting post...
One of the ministers at my ol...Interesting post...<br /><br />One of the ministers at my old church divorced his wife because as he told my brother in law "she didn't do enough for him in the bedroom". <br /><br />One of my male friends was talking to this girl and was doing everything in the world to get her to date him...in their "talking" stage they finally had sex or whatever and he found out she;s a serious freak and he then told me he can't dtae her anymore cos she's too freaky. I never really thought that was a problem for guys, thought that would be a plus but he said nah, the fact that she's that freaky and willing to do anything in the bedroom with him scares him...umm ok.<br /><br />I'm confused now.Kashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00726172480738272930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-78226270743228552862011-02-10T03:53:45.044-06:002011-02-10T03:53:45.044-06:00Sorry, am gonna say more.
I know lots of guys who...Sorry, am gonna say more.<br /><br />I know lots of guys who disqualify you from marriage cos of the very reason they fell in love with you. which is very twisted i think.<br /><br />my problem with guys who want freaky girlfriends and conventional goody two shoe wives is this: you marry goody two shoes, who is too goody to try freaky things. then u start missing miss freaky and then start screwing around. WHAT IS THAT?! <br />just marry the woman that makes you happy, shikena!Apinkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10533901147081186591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-21864161482049263472011-02-10T03:47:00.713-06:002011-02-10T03:47:00.713-06:00I just asked my colleague's opinion on this an...I just asked my colleague's opinion on this and he seems kinda different from other men. His wife was his definition of freaky and that didnt disqualify her from being his wife cos he loves her first and foremost.<br /><br />Me? Well i think he is one in a hundred i guess. but really, maybe most men arent that confused. its a matter of who wins the game where the winner gets the MRS. unfortunately for us women, we never know the rules or how to play, we just find out we either won or lost. sad. <br /><br />a guy could marry cos she's got big jugs and butt or cos she looks like his wonderful mum. whatever works for him.<br /><br />so, i will be myself. as freaky as i can get for whoever to handle it.Apinkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10533901147081186591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-63210810781436050192011-02-09T23:30:09.119-06:002011-02-09T23:30:09.119-06:00Hmm this you Chuck Bass has found himself to our c...Hmm this you Chuck Bass has found himself to our comment section *Waves* Hi!!!! LOL!<br /><br />*onto the post* <br /><br />I would agree for the most part. Isn't it the same way you would want a man who is good in bed but who hasn't slept with half of Lagos? I think it is because people resonate freaks with being hoes so (some) men cannot handle that. I dunno. Human beings are confused...#sigh!LohiOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11975093083074538622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-36807307192947111062011-02-09T23:17:50.402-06:002011-02-09T23:17:50.402-06:00Men aren't confused.
Before you snort/laugh/th...Men aren't confused.<br />Before you snort/laugh/throw something at the screen, please clue me in...what kind of man are you talking about??<br /><br />There are all kinds of men out there, (as I'm sure most of you ladies know) and as such they fit into different categories.<br /><br />Some cannot marry a freak... (Because he's chased and fucked too many)<br />Some cannot do certain things to/with their wives (because they married someone they are sexually incompatible with)<br /><br />The list goes on.<br /><br />Consider this:<br />Those bad-girls/freaks/whores that you ladies seem to be oh-so-concerned about have only one thing to attract a man.<br />Sex.<br />If a man is looking for a sohphisticated woman? Good conversation? Or just one that can COOK? <br />these women would be useless to him<br />(and men know this)<br /><br />Im sure it warms the cockles to yell "men are confused" because I'm sure you ladies have heard such about your gender quite a bit, but the truth is we aren't confused at all.<br />So y'all can keep that trophy.chuck bassnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-15537900002444826752011-02-09T21:07:15.460-06:002011-02-09T21:07:15.460-06:00I just had to laugh small. The word verification i...I just had to laugh small. The word verification is some letters shy of being 'chinedu'. It's 'chinedne'.Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-27673699213857991312011-02-09T21:05:15.620-06:002011-02-09T21:05:15.620-06:00I shall be myself (whatever that is).
I tell ya, m...I shall be myself (whatever that is).<br />I tell ya, men are quite a confused bunch. A male friend of mine spoke on this a while ago. He said there are some sexual acts he would never do with his wife, so as not to taint his perception of her...but would happily do with a jump off. I was like, you can't be serious.<br />How can females expect to have great with these men if the men intend to hold back? Hmmph!<br />I also wonder what they define as freaky. It'd better not be some 'watered' down ish either. <br /><br />Aniwoos, like I said. I will be moi, so dude better accept me whichever way I come.<br /><br />And I'm with MPB, a lot of the so-called bad girls are married. And according to men, they are married because they know what it takes to get and keep a man + their sexual experiences are a plus because men like freaks. Heck, one born again guy even said that men don't want a woman to be churchy 360, even a man of God wants a lil spice in between the sheets so umm...confusion much?<br />I tire sha.<br /><br />Oh, and I won't apologize for this long comment because I know you like long comments :-DMgbeksnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-54421860824524770202011-02-09T20:37:06.290-06:002011-02-09T20:37:06.290-06:00i totally agree with you.. guys re just so annoyin...i totally agree with you.. guys re just so annoying hey. they want their wifesto be a younger version of their mum while they still go ahead to look 4 the so called "bad chicks" outside their matrimonial home :(<br />i still think its possible 4 a lady to combine the two. I cld be tha sweet, caring, motherly wife and still be one sexy vixen in the bedroom,lol.. if he cheats on me, i'll enter the nearest "ekenedilichukwu" bus back to my papa's house :pkitkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06768682440881142726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-69266322509335130132011-02-09T20:32:41.193-06:002011-02-09T20:32:41.193-06:00Men lie and are confused. When it comes to sexual ...Men lie and are confused. When it comes to sexual acts, I feel i will be running in circles if I am trying to project what I think he wants me to be. Sex is about intimacy and acceptance. So, I do what makes ME comfortable (which in some people's book involves things that makes me freaky but to others not so freaky e.g the use of toys). Which reminds me that freakometers are so subjective. I will say that when he puts that ring on my finger, I am willing to increase my freakiness by stepping out of my comfort zone (e.g. filming videos and such) BUT some things will never change like unless I am raped, I don't intend to have anal sex. SO if he needs a sidechick for that...then i married the wrong guy...<br />oooh random, i know many supposed "bad" girls who are happily married including ex-strippers. I also know a couple of "good" girls who are ripe for the plucking and unmarried. So yeah, men are confused.neuyogihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03094246999281257053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-73174851730982939842011-02-09T20:16:10.954-06:002011-02-09T20:16:10.954-06:00yep, Naija men generally have issues with wanting ...yep, Naija men generally have issues with wanting to marry their "mother" and having a proper woman. Sometimes it seems a woman can't win.. if you aren't as open minded then its a desire to search outside..if you are open-minded its a fear that you're too "exposed".. either way, judgment be damned. One must be sexually fulfilled as best as possible so, if you are a freak.. be one, if not cool. But be you.Tanna Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08962469114206721747noreply@blogger.com