tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post8018966597434559518..comments2023-11-05T04:04:33.657-06:00Comments on The Source..: Taking Responsibility (?)TayneMenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13992618450733549102noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-70912317577248660712009-09-29T19:30:45.618-05:002009-09-29T19:30:45.618-05:00I love love love Michael Buble...! He makes me bel...I love love love Michael Buble...! He makes me believe...<br /><br />Anywhoo...<br /><br />"In most cases I think we can equate it to same way we say no one can hurt your feelings unless you let them, can this be applied to this too?" ---> I don't see how this is possible because the simple fact that you are with this person means that you have invested your feelings in the relationship in some way, and you have essentially "let them".<br /><br />I sorta see your point when you speak of taking responsibility, however, I don't necessarily think that one can completely blame oneself for a heartbreak and hold oneself accountable, unless of course the signs prior to the end are blatant. There are situations where you can see telltale signs, but I doubt that we can ever be 100% sure that there is really something amiss and the relationship is heading for the rocks. It could just be that at the moment, the couple is going through a rough patch that most relationships have to endure and many a times, people choose to stick it out for hope that they can work it out, and things will get better. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. My point is we can never be 100% sure. If it's meant to be, it will. If not, it'll be better in time... :)<br /><br /><br />Nice blog... :DNaijadivanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-63920898245740376252009-09-29T08:40:36.104-05:002009-09-29T08:40:36.104-05:00there must me something in teh music industry wate...there must me something in teh music industry water, everybody has a new album. i aint complaning though.. nope not me.<br /><br />i think the whole break up thing is because no one wants to admit they are wrong. thats whay the first stage of grief is denial.Reverencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04455597687735108379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-38877475786939988402009-09-28T14:53:05.815-05:002009-09-28T14:53:05.815-05:00There is a tendency for humans to blame others and...There is a tendency for humans to blame others and not themselves. I think the older one gets the more one is likely to think about the part one might have played in break-up cos as you rightly said they are to common denominator. <br /><br />As with most things in life, it’s not what happens to you, its how you deal with it. However, the fact that you decide to not let the heart break destroy you doesn’t mean the person didn’t cause you pain. <br /><br />As per having a hand in your own heartbreak…I don’t know about that one.<br /><br />There is always room for improvement but unless the woman is being dumped for the same reason all the time then it might just be her luck of the draw.<br /><br /><i>If that made no sense, blame my colossal headache...</i>Repressed Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07474943358222599446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-34589601700073598192009-09-27T23:22:34.039-05:002009-09-27T23:22:34.039-05:00I love MB and that song is sweet.I love MB and that song is sweet.Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8715141585183771502.post-39361667820002328022009-09-27T21:07:03.577-05:002009-09-27T21:07:03.577-05:00I'm first! There's a Soulmate for everyone...I'm first! There's a Soulmate for everyone :)<br />My CILy pointed me in the direction of mine :)<br />Ok lemme stop gushing. <br />I agree that a lot of times, both parties play a part in the breakup but I know one situation where she was completely blindsided but then again I only know one side of the story.<br /><br />Have a great week me CIL. Why am I feeling extremely happy? lol... I dunno... Ok now I am have a conversation with myself on your blog. I need to go take my meds :)CILnoreply@blogger.com