Friends With Benefits
Yesterday on twitter, I came across a tweet that read: "The friendship is the most important part of being FWB tbh. That’s why it’s friends with benefits not benefits with friends. Think about it" Now, the person was being cheeky but I had responded before I realized that. So my thoughts on this. The misleading thing about that title is thinking the person you are getting and giving benefits to is your friend. Now granted, we all define friends differently but once you get into a casual situationship or situation where you are just scratching each others itch then something about the friendship is pushed to the bottom, it's no longer a friendship but now a sexual understanding/arrangement. It shouldn't be explained but I feel I have to. Whenever opinions are made it is not always fact and does not always apply to every single situation. In this case if this goes on for a long time without evolving to a relationship this is what I am referring to. A FWB situa