Friday, July 30, 2010

Friday Randoms

Hi guys, Happy Friday to you. I'm not even going to lie, I totally forgot that today was Friday, it has been one crazy week for me and I am so all over the place, I am very much looking forward to the weekend, even though I need to buckle up and study for an exam this weekend. I don't know oh, this one I dey forget fridays, could it be the end of friday randoms is near? :(. Sha hope everyone is having a lovely week and intends to have an awesome weekend. Nice Anon!!, yes i am calling you out, I am still vexing!! Time to random:

Admit it Levi Johnston is a cutie despite being a douche.

So I confess something I have done before. I am a HUGE Backstreet Boys fan. I think in about 2004 or so they were releasing an album and had just released a single, "Crawling back to you". Anyways, so they went on tour sha and I hadn't had enough time to know the lyrics by heart. So yours truly, printed out the lyrics and played the song to death while memorizing lines the day before the concert, just so I could sing along at the concert:). I can't tell you why I do some things I do.

Come oh, Tia and Tamera are 32??? Where is time flying to? When I first land this country they were young and i used to jelox them. I caught their special on style network, they are not as dry or goody goody like i used to think.

So I hear tattoos are addictive. At what point do you tell yourself to stop? I think a lirru something here or there in a discreet place is cute when it starts to look like a kid going haywire on a wall, I dunno, it's time to stop.

Hey! My birthday is coming soon! I love birthdays! I figure I will help some friends of mine who read this blog to give you an idea and start saving. Thunder fire anyone who laughs at my list. Feel free to collaborate with each other friends and join money together hehehe.: A really plush comfortable bathrobe, A GPS, A camera, a gift card(to anywhere really - MPB you are not allowed to give me a gift card!(lol)), a flat screen tv(yes you read right), a kindle and a dock with speakers for a Zune 120. That's all I can think of for now, not too bad right? *laughs and snickers*

I have this argument with my friend all the time. They say Nigerian men like thick women. I have been thick/plumpish all my life and I grew up in Nigeria, this has not been my experience. Maybe it's my friends sha, as in in public they claim they like thick and phat ass and all but in convos they be fearing for when she has kids and they be liking that lepa thing. Again not like bony skinny, but that portable, slim chic. Shrugs, sha saying I disagree when they say Naija men prefer thick, maybe I will settle for 50/50.

For anyone who watches Teen Mom or 16 and pregnant. I am rooting hard for Catelynn and Tyler. Like I want them to work, it's just sad seeing their troubles in their young relationship and it just looks like they are never going to get over giving their baby up for adoption.


I said zit, cuz I hate the word pimple.

“We always ignore the ones who adore us, and adore the ones who ignore us"

I love traveling. I've done a bit this year with 3 more trips by end of the year but I have to say I get more excited thinking about the airline miles I am racking up. And all I do is rack them up. I don't use it!! gosh I need help.

I watched a documentary on the lottery. Some dude found his winning ticket, a year after it was announced.He found it 3 days after the deadline. It was for 5.2 million.He sued the state and lost. He will be forever haunted with the fact that he missed 5.2 milla.

PRAYER REQUEST: For all young people/teenagers who are being bullied at school. For them to have the strength to speak about it and not suffer in silence and do something drastic. AMEN

Ok folks that's all I have. Again, I have a meeting scheduled on a friday afternoon - brutal!Have a lovely weekend folks and stay blessed. Enjoy D'Prince ft Wizid and Jesse Jagz - Jonzing World


Friday, July 23, 2010

Friday Randoms

Aloha my fellow peeps how are ya? I am currently on a high since I just came from one of the best concerts ever. Yep, my gaga killed it,she is hella weird sha but the woman di very talented. Totally got my money's worth and I am glad I went. Up next, Rascal Flatts on saturday thanks to work. So, it's safe to say that community random idea is dead and gone, I didn't get any randoms so I'll go ahead and post the two that I received and continue business as usual.If you read this Kay9, please feel free to state what you disagreed with on my last post. Comments and disagreements are always welcome here. Let's random.

**May I just say that I typed up all my randoms and it just disappeared, that is very annoying.

In the animal kingdom, male animals are more beautiful than the female, eg. the male lions have the mane and the females are bald, male peacocks have the colours while the peafowl are brown and pale. Why did God flip the script and make human females more beautiful (attractive) than the men? - Swanboy

I was bbm'ing with a friend in Nigeria and after a long period of no
communication, he sent " sorry, the internet went out.. there is only one
internet in Nigeria "
BBM is wireless right? Is there really only one internet in Nigeria? are
there several internets? how many internets are in the world? Is there one
internet in the world? I am still plagued by these questions - Anonymous

I have to say that I chuckled a bit when I heard that Glen Beck was going blind :(

I was watching Usher's Behind the Music and the Usher/Chili relationship came up. I have to say that it must be very hard for celebs to heal from a broken relationship with everything on display.

I don't think I trust skinny chefs. Giada De Laurentiis I am looking at you.

I love the show Next Food Network Star almost as much as I love Top Chef.

E be like say I don reach the age of younger men hollaring. Mommy says there comes a time when it will be divorcees lol

BB messenger needs a time out button where you can just tune people out and you don't have to respond.

Elisabeth Hasselback is a fool. Yes I said it.

People are getting deep quotes from Eat, Pray, Love, me I got "You need a droughtbreaker, get yourself a rainmaker"

It seems while everyone is being health conscious, watching what they eat and working out, I am on the other end of the spectrum. Name any food that is bad for you and I am sure I ate it last week,let's not include the alcohol. smh@self.

Why is it called twitter but you tweet and not twit?

So if google was popular in the days when yahoo yahoo started would it have been called google, google?

Quote i read: problem with pretending to like someone, you'll always forget to care.

What is the hype with 3d for real?They give headaches anyways. I am so over the hype, give me regular old screen anyday.

The question of can you have it all? The career, the family, the whole package. I don't know, it seems that you will always sacrifice somethng to have it all, which means you don't have it all.

PRAYER REQUEST: For all those who need to be reminded that God has not forgotten about them. Amen


Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Relationship Ponderings

I had a well thought out blog post on this and it was titled something else but I have had it for so long in my head, of course now I am ready to type it out my head is blank, so I am just going to lay out what is in my head.

Relationships - This is the topic that never dies, it's something we always talk about. You get with your girlfriends or guy friends or you meet someone and the question do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend usually comes up. If not that, it turns to the whole guy/girl thing. No matter how much we get tired of it, I don't think this topic can ever get exhausted. As we get older, we either keep making the same mistakes or we live and learn and adjust to the scenarios that we come across, for the most part we eventually meet that one person that we decide to spend the rest of our lives with and hope that we made the right decision. From stories/personal experiences I came up with some conclusions that like I always say are subject to change:

A good man or woman is hard to find - especially in this day of plenty options - when you meet a good one, appreciate him/her and don't sabotage yourself.

Relationships shouldn't be hard. Yes, they take work but there shouldn't be too much tugging and back and forths. Too many unanswered questions or questioning or unsuredness. Most of us are used to the whole drama in it that when we are in an easy relationship, we question whether something is wrong.

It's funny how it takes a good relationship to make you realize how sucky the last one was or how you were settling.

I've never thought that there was a "the one" for each person. Had a discussion with friends and we agreed that there are certain people for each person (ok maybe they said the one)BUT it's a question of if they meet them. You can meet a person that's not part of your "the one" list - a dud, we called it - and both parties can actually make it work, their journey will just be harder than if they were with a "the one" person - Sweet Baby Rays, I hope that made sense.

I remember when I used to wonder what an emotionally unavailable man was. There is no such thing as an emotionally unavailable man. There is just such a thing as a man being with the wrong woman and therefore not opening up. So the woman stays there, wondering and saying, this is just how he is when in his next relationship, he is practically baring his soul to her.

There is nothing wrong with being the wrong woman in a failed relationship. Most women, tend to take it personally and think something is wrong with them but nothing is wrong with you. Don't beat yourself up trying to change yourself because Boy A said you were too weird, what Boy A finds irritating could be what Boy B finds endearing about you and you can't keep changing yourself for everyone. Do you, the right person will love and appreciate you - flaws and all.

I am a huge believer in right person/right timing. I don't even know if I can explain it, so interpret it any which way you want.

Don't settle for less. We are beautiful and deserving of good love. So eventually those looking will find it and those who have found it will keep it.

I think that's about all I can remember and hope it made sense. It's 6am and I should be sleeping. I feel like I have to put a bunch of disclaimers on my posts now because there are a lot of misunderstandings but nyeh. Feel free to share your opinions and add yours.


Ok have a good week :)

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Yay Segun Gele

Even though I want to slap those who say, do what you love and what you are good at, it really is true. This is yet another example of it. Most Nigerian brides know of Segun Gele from Houston and now he has made it to CNN. Follow your dreams y'all!


* I got the video from YNC lounge's blog. Thank you and hope you don't mind.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Friday Randoms

Hiya guys what's up? How was your week? I had a good and busy week. Been at a week long job function and it's been great actually. It's been an eventful week seeing as our very own Wande Coal had a "moment" and his nude pics were circulating everywhere, if you didn't see it - be grateful. I am excited about the upcoming week, I get to see Lady Gaga in concert yay!Oh yea, I actually have an extra ticket which I can't sell, so if anyone knows anyone or if anyone wants to go see Lady Gaga in Dallas next week in the nose bleed seats, shoot me an email and I will be happy to give it up. So despite positive reaction, as expected I didn't get enough responses to do community friday randoms, only 2 people sent me a random so, I had to come up with some randoms for this week. I don't know if it's the change of weather in a different city but I am feeling a bit weird like a sore throat, headache and runny nose. Anyways might as well get to it.

Seems last weekend was the chosen weekend by celebs to get married. Jim from The Office, Martin Lawrence, Carrie Underwood, Lala Vasquez and one more person I forget.

I always say cooking in Naija is different but a friend of mine disagreed with me. For me, I'd have to get used to like the leaves, the pepper hotness etc. I didn't cook so much before I left Nigeria so I am used to all the stuff here.

Ads work sha. I saw an ad for the Nivea Happy Lotion and now I am the happy user of Nivea Happy Lotion lol

Ah, what ever happened to the days of msn? There was a time where my msn messenger was always full but now there are plenty times it's empty. Guess everyone is on twitter now so no need.

There is a certain sweetness when you are home during work hours, I can't explain it.

I was watching one of my entertainment shows and there is a couple who is expecting a baby. He is not so famous but he is an actor sha. Anyways, the kicker is that he is 20 yrs old and his baby mama, a producer is 43. Isn't that just...weird?

How many car crashes will George Michael have for goodness sakes?

DOn't laugh at my next random oh!

Anyways, when I order chinese combo fried rice, it comes with beef, chicken and shrimp. I think of them as children. When I take a fork of rice with shrimp and it hits my mouth, I liken it to my mouth being visited by my favorite child of the bunch, I like chicken second best and I am indifferent if beef visits me or not. But in public I claim to love them equally hence ordering a combo - don't ask me to explain, it was a random thought.

Celebs are daft - No you will not be together forever, stop getting tattoos!

Is there any man who cries more than T.O?Geez Louise.

Speaking of T.O, he reminded me of something. He cries about his father not being around and being a good dad, so why does he have a child that he has never seen? Reminded me also of ibiluv's post where she has a friend whose dad cheated on her mom and got a second wife and now is dating a married man who she is pregnant for. Do people forget their own story? why continue the cycle?

I saw an abc special where this dude abandoned his family and he was presumed dead but he changed his identity because he was tired of being in a family. When he was confronted he just yawned and ignored them. Govt was garnishing his check for child support and he even tried to get his money back. How evil is that?

Alcide on True Blood is a very beautiful man. And that is all.

Very good article -

I have always thought being a trainer(in an office setting) would be a very difficult job.

Was watching the ESPY awards (which was funny btw) and Chris Johnson(?) came on stage and he was sounding slow and I asked my friend if the dude was illiterate or just from New Orleans. I didn't even realize what I said till I was done.

Funny tweet I read: honesty is the new hating and someone said isnt honesty the original hating?

Ok I am done, can't think of a song so have a lovely weekend!

Monday, July 12, 2010


25% of all men are unstable
25% of all men can't be faithful
30% of them don't mean what they say
and 10% of them in maybe 20 is gay

That leaves you a 10% chance of ever finding your man
That means you never paid attention to these words that I said
I'm gonna teach you how expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10.

Don't be a booty call
If he don't respect you girl he gon forget you girl

If he's in a relationship
If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you

Tell him that you're celibate
And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it

Be the person you wanna find
Don't be a nickel out here lookin' for a dime


15% of all men got a complex
15% of all men don't practice safe sex
20% of them come from homes without a father
and there's a 50/50 chance that you'll marry a coward

Something to think about when you're taking a shower
Something to swallow when you're drinking bottled water

I'm gonna teach you how to expose the 90%
and show you what to do to keep the other 10

Be patient! He's waiting!
You don't gotta settle for that
Leave what is past alone!
Get you a backbone!
Stop being (sorry for) yourself!

Have you no checklist?
It's gonna take patience
Time is still wastin'

- Lyfe Jennings

Hi guys, hope you had a good monday. I had a good one, had a delayed flight but made it in one piece. Today was chill day at my work event, did some games, drinking and golfing. For someone who hasn't golfed before, I had the longest golf drive (whatever that means but long can't be bad right?;)) Anyways being the lightweight I am I have a headache and I am tired, tomorrow is business all day so I am in my hotel room stuck watching the bachelorette because my VH1 and Bravos aren't in the channel lineup:(. I really had nothing I was going to say but perusing the net I saw that The Dream and Christina Milian had broken up since dec 2009 due to him cheating and I am just like what is it? Like I have said before in a previous post, cheating has practically become the norm but it still saddens me. If dude knows he can't be with one person, why put a ring on it? why keep having babies? *Kara DiGuordi needs to see that you don't have to connect to a song to write it after all he writes all these love songs and wrote Beyonce's "single ladies". Also just read Kash's blogpost on men making an effort in the beginning and reeling you in and then just pulling away - anyways that's a different story for a different day, I have a blogpost on that that I have written in my head for weeks now that I should put down soon. They sha reminded me of the lyrics I put above.

Moving on....

So my friend had a brilliant idea that I am gonna use. Sooooo, I am going to have community friday random day! yay! Anyways, to give a chance to hear other people's randoms, I would love to hear them so email me your randoms and I will compile and feature them on Friday Randoms, you can let me know if you want to be anonymous or if you want to be mentioned. My email addy is I look forward to hearing from you. Have a wonderful week!

*Disclaimer - People, the numbers are not facts, it's a song for goodness sake. It was the general gist of the song as per don't be a statistic and choose wisely when choosing a mate that I was going for in terms of relating to my post. I didn't expect anyone to actually calculate and check the numbers. Just thought I'd put that out there.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Friday Randoms

Hello ladies and gents, how wenteth your week? Once again we have stumbled upon another Friday, yippee!Its been an eventful week sha, how was your 4th? Hope not as boring as mine. Nna, who watched that Ghana-Uruguay game? I still have nightmares and cringe when I think about it, I can't imagine how Gyan feels, how could he have missed that penalty???sigh, all spilled milk. How about the therapy honesty me-me's floating around, thanks to Sting for starting it, it's been fun and I have made a lot of my non blogging friends fill those out too, I learned that most of my friends are answer thieves and stole my answers(personalized letters is mine yo!) lol...enough yacking, random we shall!

So, I am irked when people say nerve wrecking when it is nerve wracking, it's almost as bad as saying threadmill instead of treadmill or thrash instead of trash.

Why do people speak so surely of things they have not experienced or know nothing about?

The concept of getting work emails in my phone is quite aggravating but I can't switch it off. I wish I could.

I saw a story about a 10 year NBA veteran who is now broke and living out of his car and you know what? I am sorry, I can't feel sorry for celebs who go broke. Like I saw somewehere, if you are able to blow millions in this lifetime, it just means that you were not deserving of it in the first place.

In another life I wish I could be a chef. We'll see if I will take lessons after I am done with school.

Was talking to my friend who cooks a lot and I told her that I hope her food doesn't suck. You know how sometimes there are people who always cook all the time and make all these things but then their food sucks. How do you even know when your food sucks sef? I remember when I was talking to someone and he had nothing in his house but tomato sauce, no spice gan and I made the nastiest tasting bootleg stew, he still yummed and ate and took seconds sef. It wasn't later when I made him proper stew that he was like Oh thank God you can make stew.

I know I have said it before but I really really really enjoy watching Run's House. I ALWAYS end up with a smile on my face. I just love their dynamic.

Have you noticed that celebs will hawk anything nowadays? From Sunny Delight to Frozen Dinners to even Activia "to help digestion".

I asked my friend once what her type was regarding men and she said she didn't have a type, she liked anyone who likes her. I know the feminists and they of many toasters will say something but I got what she meant.

I just always assumed I would hate orange juice with pulp, I accidentally picked up a bottle this week and it wasn't bad at all.

I think I am learning that not all things are a sign. Even though I think everything happens for a reason but for example just because I bumped into Guy Z 7 times in one day doesn't mean we are meant to be together, we just happened to bump into each other.

I sometimes wonder what spurs a person to comment on a blog vs not comment.

I also wonder if I have "met" a blogger and just didn't know they were bloggers.

I need a time share at the post office, I think I went there like 3 times alone this week.

Justin Beiber said," I am always around old people, like 30 year olds"...See my life, lol

So do the Kardashians have a machine that says, "Black Athletes only"? Do you just will it into existence what you want? The foolish girl wants to get married and dates younger men that are 25/26, ummm by the time she is done, her body count will just have team mascots.

Posse is a funny word.

I know it's not a big deal to confide in people for some but it's not an easy thing for me to do so it's a big deal. It says a lot for someone to think they can tell you private stuff. That being said, thank you "Goat" for confiding in me :)

Its funny how I think Suicide is both brave and cowardly at the same time.

Guy friends are great and all but noone does a good vent fest like girl friends.

I like Banky's song Tanker, A LOT...when I am listening to it alone but when I am at a house party and I request it, the song just doesn't quite sound that crunk. I guess it doesn't translate well in public?

PRAYER REQUEST: For loved ones, left behind in a suicide. That they get comfort and are able to get over any guilt they may feel. AMEN.

I really do try to keep my randoms short but my brain is full of them I guess lol. Well I am headed to the Chi next week, I might not have time to have random thoughts. Enjoy your weekend blogelettes and today's song is a song that didn't grow on me but crept on me, woke up one day and realized I liked it.

3OH3! ft Ke$ha - My first Kiss

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

The Honesty Therapy MeMes

Right now I'm feeling....quite down, the aftermath of a botched exam and a bunch of emotional stuff going on ( I really didn't want this to be my answer, I've been ok lately but it's an honesty thing, so I had to be honest)

When I'm alone I feel....overwhelmed with emotion yet peaceful lol. I often wonder how long it will take for me to be found if anything ever happened.

When I'm surrounded by people I feel.....anxious. I am not gonna try and explain.

One thing I hate is....injustice. I don't care how rich or poor someone is, everyone should be treated fairly.

One thing I really like about myself is even temper. It takes a while for me to get angry and I can be objective. I would never act on emotion, I take a time out to think about stuff.

When I'm feeling sad I......stick to myself, think a million thoughts a minute, wallow and try to positive think myself out of it.

When I daydream it's usually about.......having a figured out future, what it feels like to be debt free. Oh and sex.

I'm afraid of.....dying alone.

I'm happiest when......I feel I have accomplished something, whether it's a good grade or work or making someone's day.

One thing that really worries me is .... feeling like I don't know what the heck I am doing and what direction to take in life.

If I could change one thing about myself it would self doubt.

If I could be with anyone right now I would be with.....i honestly can't think of anyone. It's easy to say my family but if I am being honest when I am around them they annoy me even though I love them. so I guess answer will be myself.

The family member I am closest to mom.

If I was really honest with my father I would tell him....that all I need to hear is a sincere apology and I am willing to put it all behind me.

One thing I regret about my life is ......not taking advantage of some opportunities that presented itself to me ( I hate when people say they regret nothing, I just don't think it's possible)

If I only had one more day to live I would......get right with the Lord, hang out with fam and write personalized letters to all the people I love.

If I was really honest with my mother i would tell her.....that I love her so much and I don't blame her for anything. Oh and Thank you.

One thing about me that nobody knows is......don't think I can say it. I am even surprised I am doing this me-me sha.

I hope that someday in the future.....I find some peace and clarity :)

When I think about my family I feel.....a warmth in my heart.

Something I'm really embarrassed about is......this was hard, I don't embarrass easy.ooh oh most I can think of is I am just a tad bit embarrassed that I am not an A student lol. I usually feel like I am failing the Nigerian stereotype.

One thing about me I never want to change genuine care for others.

One thing I feel really proud of is.....getting this far in my MBA program without flunking out.

Blogsville has helped me to.....realize that there are others who share my story.

One thing I like about blogsville is......that like a fetish there is something for everyone.

Ok that's it, I tried to be as honest as possible. I hereby tag Neefemi, My Purple Brain, The Lucid Lillith, Jaycee, Nice Anon and Nutty J

Friday, July 2, 2010

Friday Randoms

Hey hey my people, I thought Friday would never come but finally it is here. We thank God we can see it. Nna, 1st of July don knack oh. Feels like the days drag on by but the year is whizzing by. The only reason I am excited about second half of the year is that it's one step closer to Dec=Naija.Yaaay! Anyhue, because I said I will try not to worry, ofcourse this week was crazy, but God dey sha and I survived. Who caught the dry BET awards and the Breezy waterworks. Infact, man in the mirror came on at work today as I was listening to my Zune and I burst out laughing, the whole scene cracked me up, kudos to his PR manager. Okay oh, less yapping and more randoming.

Sooooo turns out Mel Gibson is not a one time racist, this fool was yelling at his ex (who was recording it)and this is what he said: You're an embarrassment to me. You look like a f--king pig in heat and if you get raped by a pack of n---ers it will be your fault..Na beans???

Watching dem shows set in old times like Tudors, Spartacus, Rome etc.looks like slaves weren't regarded as anything, they just go about their business as their masters have sex and if the woman is not in the mood he can have any one he wants.

It is interesting to note that Toy Story 3 is the best movie I have seen this year and I do not like animation movies. The quality of movies have gone down sha, then again real movie season hasn't started for me.

Do any of the Jacksons have black children?

As the only female in the office I wonder if anyone will say anything to me if I dress inappropriately. I think these things sometimes when I catch a little boobage action going on.

I think scheduling meeting on Friday is cruel and unusual punishment.

Poor Brandy, looks like she is having a hard time adjusting to the shifting dynamics between her and Ray J.

Does having an abortion for someone tie you to the person as much as having a child for someone would?

Where is Nice Anon?? Nne, ebe ki no?

I think Shut it Down by Drake is a hawt song but I won't lie I am a bit uncomfortable when Dream comes in, it's like they are singing to each other or something. Could be cuz i can't figure this Drake dude out...

This whole osheeeee trend in naija is kinda annoying.

You know that Wimbledon match where they played 1million sets. I find it hilarious that he lost the next round. Yea, Yea, Yea some will say he was tired but na lie, he woulda lost anyways.

I can't shower without music sha. I have a little boombox in my bathroom and when I am stuck in hotel rooms, I carry my laptop in.

Ok this is evil and I apologize but for some reason I just found out Farrah Fawcett died of anal cancer and I was telling a classmate that if it were me I would lie about the kind of cancer I had. And I know there is no relation but I couldn't help but wonder if too much anal sex lead to it *hangs head in shame* I know, I know but it was a random thought :(

Why are most naija guys in the States engineers?

Quote I saw somewhere: Six billion people in the world, six billion souls. And sometimes... all you need is one.

Omo, these non american actors they try with accents...House for one, Jason Stackhouse on True Blood for two (australian), Kevin on Brothers and Sisters for three (Irish)

Gosh, soccer players thighs are so yummy. I think they have the best athlete bodies...*cue in thoughts of David Beckham*

They really need to stop calling us the Giants of Africa.

What is Love?

That pringles ad is true for me sha, once I pop one I can't stop.

Someone complimented me on my voice at church on Sunday, that happens every now and then and I will admit that, that is one gift God gave me that I totally wasted.

So much guilt must come with being a goalkeeper sha. Can't wait for the Ghana game tomorrow, you think we got a shot? loll

I am such a twitter lurker but I will not join. Amen.

Watching religulous, I realized I have no idea if I believe in evolution or not..hmmm.

Shoutout to Swanboy!, Do you still read the randoms?:)

PRAYER REQUEST: For all those who have lost one or both of their parent, for the spirit of comfort. AMEN.

I am not a fan of Em like that but I like this song. Industry people dey yarn say it's wrong for Rihanna to sing lyrics like this considering her history with violence with Chris Brown. They need to get a life and chill, it's not that serious. (Is it just me or does it have melodies of B.O.B's "Airplanes" in it? Have a lovely 4th of July weekend and don't go to Club Study and Club Boredom like I'll be doing lol.

Eminem ft Rihanna - Love the way you lie