Friday Randoms

Ah. The cold is officially here. I have switched out my closet and put away my summer clothes. Wah. Can you believe we only have a month and some left of the year...actually, the decade! Man, this getting older thing is for the birds. Kinda scary actually. I just want it to slow down. Do y'all have plans for thanksgiving? I have a complicated relationship with Thanksgiving. Its always made me sad and I think it reminds me that I don't have family nearby. I have been fortunate enough to have friends and family extend invitation some years but even then I felt awkward, like I was imposing in someone else's family. I have plans this year though but most of all I am looking forward to the days off to veg out.

Okay let me random.

Why is it taboo to let people know what you earn? I mean I get why it is a rule by employers but even outside of the work place. Is it shame? What if you are a high earner where shame is not applicable? I mean people already kind of infer what others make.

Recently, I have noticed I have come across a few Indian people who have just one kid. I am not sure why I found myself surprised because as I think about it, I don't think I know of Indians being known for having a lot of kids.

It's such a crazy thing that you can never say out loud that you regret having a child.
On that note, being a mom/parent seems so hard. And yep, I am making a distinction between mom and parent.

I was talking to a guy friend and telling him that no matter how good a guy is, men are inherently selfish and he took me to task. But honestly, I stand by what I said. It doesn't necessarily mean I am saying they are all bad but it's what gives men balls/audacity. That ability to think of self first.

How do you define broke? I think for me broke is when I can't afford to get little luxuries and I am on a strictly need only basis.

I am so fascinated by watching babies grow. I have mentioned before the gazillion baby/kid pics that I have and whenever I go through my pics, its so amazing to see how they have grown. Or even people you follow online and you remember when their kids were born. I told yall this getting older thing is for the birds.

Speaking of, I went through a picture rabbit hole last weekend. They usually make me feel sad but I didn't feel sad this time. It was such a crazy reminder on how relationships evolve. Number of people I don't speak to anymore and some I didn't even know their names.

I tried the overhyped Popeyes sandwich and it was just okay. But I was told I got a dry batch and it is supposed to be succulent so I will give it one more chance. But for now Chick Fil A and Wendy's still top this.

That's all I got right now. I probably won't be back before Thanksgiving so I hope you guys have a wonderful one with your loved ones and I will try to be back to wish you all a Merry Christmas! Have a lovely weekend!


Comments

mizchif said…
I really don't like the cold. I mean i like the fashion. I like coats, i like layering, but it's such a depressing time of year.
I still can't deal with how early it gets dark around here.
Plus less motivation to do go out or anything so intensifies the loneliness.

What you said about men being selfish is so true.
Like even the nicest men, the way and ease with which they are able to choose themselves first in all situations is mind boggling sometimes. It's making me more and more tired of dealing with men as a specie.

Enjoy the holidays.
neuyogi said…
-Cold weather is for the birds man! Ugh
- I agree the way babies grow is sooo fascinating. Very trippy.
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