Thursday, April 19, 2012

Clueless

I would like to stress that I DID NOT write this blogpost. This is a blog post that I read on http://backtonaija.blogspot.com/. All credit goes to the author of that blog's and NOT MINE. I just really liked it and wanted to share.

Pick a partner, Choose a career, Raise a child...when you're still clueless?
What does a 20-something year old know about picking a life partner?

How much foresight does an 18-year-old have to choose a life career?

What does a young 25-year-old mother know about raising a newborn?

Where does the 21-year-old recent graduate gain knowledge about how to invest all his disposable income?

By the time the importance of investment dawns on him, he's married with 2 children and his disposable income has become tied down by 16 years of paying school fees.

By the time you gain decades of life experience and wisdom to raise your children, you turn around to find out that your babies are adults -- telling you what their own take on life is.

By the time you're older and wise enough to want more than pretty lips and smooth words in a spouse, the dating pool has shrunk so much you fear that love might have passed you by in the haze of self-centered youthful exuberance.

And just when you pass your exams and receive admission into the Ivy leagues of medical schools, you stumble on your hidden talent and passion for fashion.

Ha ha ha. The joke is on us.

Have you noticed how we have to make the most crucial decisions of our lives during the most inexperienced years of our existence?

To think that I have to sow the seeds that I will reap during the rest of my life during the years when I have the least amount of experience and wisdom to do so!

By the time I'm 40, 50, the fruit of those seeds slowly begin to ripen. The previous 2 decades of work (or sloth) begin to show their results. Joy - if that fruit is sweet and juicy. If it's not? Pain and regret!

So I have come to the scary conclusion that I am clueless. I would be a fool to dive into this life pretending like I know what I'm doing. Pretending like I have the know-how, wisdom and knowledge to make generation shaping decisions. Decisions that are seemingly inconsequentially mine to make, yet they ripple down my bloodline long after my 80 - 90 years on earth.

God has a fantastic sense of humour (and infinite wisdom). Woe unto me if I dive into the beautiful adventure of life without basking in his ways, his word and his wisdom.


Once again, this is not mine. All credit goes to http://backtonaija.blogspot.com/

All week long I have been listening to Lana Del Rey's "Born to Die". I love this album die. I am still a bit baffled that the U.S hasn't taken to her. If you haven't heard her album, I'd recommend it. Ok fine, I'll admit I can see how she can be an acquired taste but not for me, I loved her at first listen. I am posting my favorite song on the album below but some of my other faves are Lucky Ones, Video Games, Blue Jeans, Summertime Sadness, Million Dollar Man, National Anthem.(I swear I didn't just list the whole album). Have a wonderful weekend guys. As always - be safe!

Update - So I just did a search and realized I have posted this song before. Ah well, enjoy again :D

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2 comments:

'Lara said...

We sure are clueless...the post is on point.

First time listening to Lana Del Rey

Original Mgbeke said...

So so apt. She really put it in perspective. Life sha.

And yep, I love the Born to Die album. Very nice.